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“Is Suicide a permanent solution to a temporary problem.”

After learning about another suicide in the campus I felt the need to vent my anger at the present deplorable situation by writing this post.  I am seriously sick of hearing about students committing suicide in our campus regularly.

I don't understand why students who are as young as 20 years want to end their life in such haste. Whatever the problem may be, however daunting and hopeless the situation may seem like, how much ever despondency may set in  suicide is not the solution. The problem may appear colossal to you, but if you talk to your well-wishers about your problem they'll help you understand a facile solution for your problem. There is no shame in admitting our vulnerabilities to our friends and take their help.

I don't know the reasons why people commit suicide. But I am guessing two common rationales for people attempting suicide as failing in courses and love failure. Both are silly and childish. There are abounding examples of successful men who failed in their academics. Coming to the second reason I stated, if you love somebody it doesn't mean that the other person has to reciprocate your feelings. But if you commit suicide just imagine the torture the person you loved and those who loved you will have to undergo due to your moronic act.

We are young and we don't know what fate has in store for us. Today it may seem very difficult and almost impossible to live for one more day. But may be after today our fortune may smile at us. May be you'll get a chance to make out with Megan Fox.May be you'll become a famous actor or politician. There is always hope for a better and brighter tomorrow. I was gen reading about success-full people and I came across an article titled 5 Famous People Who Succeeded Long After They Should've Quit. It talked about a certain Joseph Conrad who attempted a suicide when he was young. On escaping his death by a whisker he decided to live and became a famous writer. What I am saying is there is always hope for better tomorrow.

Friends many of you may not be contemplating on suicide but there may be friends of yours who may need help but are hesitant to ask. So I am requesting you, when in large group of friends, along with the usual chit-chat do talk about the fallacies of suicide and make constructive arguments disdaining suicide.

“Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it.”
Mother Teresa


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